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This might be a conversation on concerns regarding INFP companion (reverse intercourse) inside the INFP Forum – The Idealists discussion boards, the main NF’s Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; we’m an INTJ man. Perhaps you dudes may help me comprehend my feminine INFP friend that is best better. I would ike to first.
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Concerns regarding INFP friend that is best (opposite gender). We’m an INTJ man. Perchance you guys may help me comprehend my feminine INFP friend that is best better.
Let me first say that i really like her dearly as my buddy. Her character fits David Keirsey’s INFP description very nearly into the page. Her, 9 years ago, I didn’t know about personality types but I felt that her mind had a wonderful warmth and deepness, that she could share emotions with an intensity that I hadn’t felt before but that her irrationality could make me go crazy when I first met. Even with 9 years she is nevertheless a huge, wonderful secret if you ask me and unravelling its secrets will likely be an activity for the others of my entire life. If I do not go nuts before that. BTW before anyone asks the reason WE failed to be a few, we currently was at an LTR once I came across her and I also’m nevertheless when you look at the same LTR whilst still being pleased with it. So even though we’d a serious crush for each other a long time ago our company is close friends and that is that.
Within the 9 years i have known her she’s got dropped deeply in love with (or has already established a crush that is severe) 8 various dudes. A number of them are not available (including myself), along with the rest she has had relationships that lasted from two months to at least one 1/2 years. Nearly every time she fell deeply in love with someone she said just just how this person can be so unique and differing from most of the sleep and just how she seems as if she’d already fully know him for quite some time etc. She was constantly utterly and entirely in love and place this option (often IMO guys that are rather average. To place it moderately) for a pedestal. Nonetheless see after a relationship is finished (regardless of it or the guy) she’s always belittling the importance of this relationship to her if she ended. She is saying things such as «we did not simply simply simply take this relationship extremely severe anyhow. » Okay, i realize it’s a protection system but it is found by me it. Dare I use the expressed term in this forum. «naive» to ALWAYS belong to exactly the same trap, to praise some guy as then putting him down when he broke up with her a few months later if he was the big love of her life after knowing him for 6 weeks and. Also we wonder why she does not appear to feel «ashamed» at all to at first constantly speak about this option just as if these were send straight straight straight down from paradise and merely a weeks/months that are few utilize the «he was not that great anyhow» routine. Is it typical for INFPs?
Think about you guys?
Would you additionally fall in love therefore easily? Would you additionally feel EACH AND EVERY TIME that this time around it is the love that is big of life?
Never you are feeling silly due to it following the fifth or 6th time? Do not you start to be more cautious at first of a relationship? Do you realy additionally constantly belittle your emotions following the relationship is finished?
And one more thing: would you additionally imagine being madly in deep love with someone as well as the time that is same an extremely close, instead intimate (but non-sexual) relationship with someone through the reverse intercourse (or of the identical intercourse if you are gay)? Often it appears become very puzzling to her, it offers developed a lot of psychological turbulences through the years therefore we’ve had times whenever certainly one of us or both required some distance but that never lasted longer than the usual fourteen days.